It is often believed that men are only after slim women. When you happen to be overweight, then you may feel like you have less luck and less chance when it comes to men and relationship. So are men really only attracted to slim women? There have been a lot of surveys on various type of men and they find quite interesting discoveries.
The most important finding is that big majority of men find women in ‘acceptable range’ attractive. By acceptable they mean the healthy weight range. You are still in the range even if you are a bit chubby. It is quite obvious, with very rare exceptions, that the super skinny women who only consist of skin and skeleton are not attractive, so as the obese women who can barely move around freely. But the point is that you are still attractive in men’s eyes even if you consider yourself on the fat side.
One thing that a lot of women fail to understand is that men are attracted to women whom they feel comfortable with, and that goes far beyond just physical looks. A woman that they can talk to, laugh with and spend good time together, especially those who can understand them is what categorized as attractive. Of course physical look is one of the aspects but it is not the most critical one.
Men like women who are confident and feel good about themselves. Women who keep on complaining about how fat they think they are and keep finding assurance from others about their look to help them feel better are often a turn off to men. Men do pay attention to how a woman looks, but not to the extent women believe they do. When you feel good about yourself, you will project that confidence out and men can see it and find you attractive. That is why the most important thing is to feel good about yourself.
If you seriously think your look is not up to standard, then find a good way to fix the problem and stick to your effort. If you think you are overweight, you may consider health issues on top of your effort to impress men, so try to shed some weight for your own sake. You will see results soon if you have good motivation and strong determination to succeed.